Rambling Late Night Journal Entry of Random Emotions w Life of Singledom

Rambling Journal Entry of Random Emotions w Life of Singledom #180828:

So, a group of gents, all relatively recently single within the past few years, were discussing about how difficult it is to find someone after a certain age, and many other factors, and how much they want to be in a relationship. I mentioned that I have been single and looking and wishing and hoping for 12 years now. Response? Well, quit complaining, you have it great being single. Nothing wrong with being single.
Another conversation of being told that I am too [ lengthy conversation of what I am too ] ends with, “You just got to be yourself!”
A gent from the first mentioned conversation all of a sudden is now with someone, and they are going on a vacation together.
Historically proven when traveling with someone, they are the ones hit on and flirted upon, their dating apps ping notifications the entire trip, mine remains silent. So, no, don’t tell me that I just need to move to a bigger city.

When I expressed my wrestling with chronic loneliness, people said to get a cat. I got a cat. I love my cat. My cat loves me. Now people tell me that I am anti-social and not going out anymore. Well, that was the purpose of getting a cat, no?
Then the LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who is just right for him.” Except for Kevin.
So, what am I going to do about it? Pretty much the same as I do with everything else where I lack success — complain about it, go quiet on it, ramble about it, and do nothing.



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