Coupled or Untethered

Reminding myself of several reasons it is good/ok/normal to be single, untethered, unsupervised:

  1. I can fight my own battles on my own, instead of just expecting my significant other to cover.
  2. I am free to help out friends at any given time, without having to explain myself to my significant other.
  3. I don’t need to fret over groceries running low in the pantry because it is only one stomach to ignore.
  4. I can be involved with many varying social events and interests, without having to hope my significant other won’t be jealous.
  5. Spontaneity is a good thing, and frequent.
  6. Not having someone criticizing your every move.

Reminding myself of several reasons why it would be good/ok/normal to be coupled, tethered, supervised:

  1. Together we can fight our battles with each other at our side.
  2. We are free to help out friends at any given time, without having to explain ourselves to our significant other.
  3. We don’t fret over groceries running low in the pantry because we both enjoy dining out.
  4. We can be involved with many varying social events and interests, with my significant participating, and I in his.
  5. Spontaneity is a good thing, and frequent.
  6. Having someone critique your every move to help each other grow.